Sex After Kids: How To Stay Connected To Your Partner

Nothing really prepares you for life after kids. Although it is likely the most incredible experience of your lifetime, expanding your family comes with challenges and a big one is the drop in sex….quantity and quality. I found myself in that position years back when I had my first and the most common directive I …

Impact Play: The Beginners Guide to Whips, Crops, Paddles and Floggers

Spanking is a stimulating part of anyone’s sex life. You might be new to it or you enjoy a little spanking here and there but impact play toys can boost your sex life to new horizons.  Impact play, known by the BDSM community, is the act of using and object or hand to strike your …

From Sexting to the Pillow: The Ultimate Guide to Dirty Talk

Maybe you are already a pro, a sultry vixen who has no problem getting all your sexual thoughts to roll off your tongue in a way that sends shivers down your partners spine. Or, maybe you struggle sex talk and after giving it your best you yell out something awkward that leaves you both in …

Let’s Talk Sexuality

What is sexuality? Simply put, sexuality is defined by our capacity to experience sexual feelings. It is also our sexual preference or orientation. While we may think we have a clear understanding or our sexuality, it isn’t always that straightforward. Sexuality and/or sexual preference is fluid for a lot of people. What we like and …

Improving Sexual Stamina

Whether we openly admit it or not, sex is one of the most important areas of our lives. It’s an area that we want to continuously grow, learn and get better…..or at least we should. There is nothing worse than a mundane, monotonous sex life. Whether it’s to increase your pleasure, enhance your partner’s experience …

Sex During a Pandemic

Let’s all admit that being stuck inside during quarantine is no fun. What better way to pass the time and get a little exercise in than engage in sex….but you ask, how do we stay safe? I think it’s important to point out that COVID is not sexually transmitted but can be transmitted through normal …

What To Do When Your Partner Is Terrible In Bed

We have all been here. You meet someone new. You become immediately attracted to them and they are smart, sexy, funny and ton of other great things. This leads to you two seeing each other a few more times and you’re really into this person. Naturally, you decide to take things to the next level, …

Sex Positions Women Hate

I sat pondering on what my next topic to write about and it brought me to a conversation that I had with a customer today. For those of you reading who aren’t familiar with me, I own a sex toy store. I also take customer service calls for said store. Yes, people call a sex …

Sex Myths: Let’s Debunk Some Common Sex Myths

Sex related questions are of the most googled on the internet and for every question, you can find 100 different answers. While some answers may change with experience or perspective, some things are just simple facts. Sexual misconceptions usually start in adolescence but can continue into adulthood and effect your sex life if not debunked. …

How long should sex last?

When it comes to sex numbers seem to get moved around. From the lowering the number of sexual partners, adding a little to penis size and maybe bragging that our sex lasted a little longer than it did. Even though we seem to be okay with fudging the numbers on a lot of sex topics, …