- First and foremost, don’t use your teeth. I cannot stress this one enough. It’s not a chew toy and absolutely none of us ladies enjoy our labia’s bitten. Just because it’s called “eating pussy” does not mean you actually bite it!
- Don’t go in uneducated on her anatomy. Unlike popular belief, the vagina isn’t a blanket term for her genitals. There are many parts that are equally important. While the vagina is the most popular term, it is actually the internal canal of her anatomy. What you see on the outside is the vulva. People find the term “vulva” off putting but, let’s be honest, how sexy is “vagina”?
- Don’t use it oral sex as foreplay. A lot of men, and ladies to be fair, just want to dive right in. Without proper foreplay, we will not be warmed up and you might end up down there for a while. Leave her panties on for a while too. The feeling of hot breath over her panties will make her wet before you even start.
- Not paying enough attention to the clitoris. Yes, we enjoy the inside of our thighs licked and kissed but it’s not going to get us there. All of that extra kissing and licking is considered foreplay to us. See above. Although it’s more than just ravishing the clit. If she seems like she is on the cusp of an orgasm, stay there. Seriously, just stay there. Clitoral stimulation is how we get off.
- Pay attention to her body language and response. You can draw the alphabet with your tongue but if it isn’t doing anything for her, you’re wasting your time.
- If she starts to push your head away, stop. Surprisingly, many people cannot tell when a woman has had an orgasm and when we do, the clitoris becomes hyper stimulated and can actually become painful. If she will let you, stay down there after her orgasm. Give her a few minutes to recover and go back for seconds. Back to back clitoral orgasms are a beautiful thing!
- Keep a good rhythm. Like in #3, repetitive clitoral stimulation is what will make you successful. There is not much that’s more frustrating than being on the verge of an orgasm and your partner switches it up.
- Don’t be too rough. This includes using fingers. A nice, firm come hither motion inside rather than jamming your fingers hard and fast. Not only will it not help her orgasm, it might actually hurt. Also, don’t suck hard on the clitoris. Handle it with care and be gentle with it!
- Don’t be selfish. Don’t go down on her because you are assuming she will reciprocate. She very well may but if that’s your intention, she will sense it and not be as enthusiastic. You know how every man’s fantasy is to get a mid afternoon blowjob with no expectations? Well, we are no different!
- Don’t forget to use your hands. Use your hands to massage her thighs, caress her breasts or stroke her skin. Many fingers go right for the vagina but a lot of women like their vulva massaged too.
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